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I also once had many limiting beliefs. For example, until my first kiss close in a club, I didn't think it was even possible. I remember seeing a PUA with loads of hotties kissing them and I said to myself then, he must just be really good looking. Recently I saw the same pictures, and thought, WTF was I talking about, I'm so much better looking than this guy!!! I remember thinking I was fucking dreaming. Then eventually came my first lay. Holy shit, no need to tell u about that. Then it happens over and over, like a fucking avalanche snowball effect. I think though that we all have limiting beliefs and if someone claims they don't they are lying. I still have limiting beliefs, but look forward to overcoming them.
Some of the newbies here would think that approaching random girls is ridiculous/impposible; others may think that kiss closing a random is difficult; others might think that extracting them home and fucking them is just something you see in movies; some PUAs might think fucking 2 chicks at the same time to be really hard... the truth is that it's all about experiencing it, and once you do, the limiting belief just vanishes. I guess that's your brain backward rationalizing about it, and realizing that it's an anomalous contradiction, and thus destroying the original belief to preserve a congruent logic based on the new experience.
But this is also why it is important to take a step at a time. The foundation will be there, and you aren't going to just 'get lucky' and have no idea afterwards what it is that worked, because you've been going out in field working each little step till you know it works for sure, and if it doesn't, you also know what went wrong. This was one of the bigger issues I had when I was using canned material completely - I had no idea why it wasn't working, or why it was. But it's also important to make sure that you are aware of the difference between 'goal' and having a 'structure'. The structure allows you to get to the goal, not vice versa.
Speaking of canned material: I think that canned material is essential as the backbone structure to a PUA's game. It's well field tested stuff (obviously you should also test yourself before implementing it 100% into your game) that will get you responses if executed 80%+ correct. But, you aren't going to take a few routines from TylerDurden or Harmless, lines from ijjjji, or any of the top PUAs, and run a 100% smooth game. Sure, it gives you some high octane shit that will get chicks laughing and attracted, but that is only the baseline script. I was using a very TD based game, which I still do, but back then I was adhering to it so rigidly alone that it wasn't giving me results. Read his post on 'purpose of gaming for loverboy'. You can take lines said by another Oscar winning actor and sure it still sounds money, but you repeating it is acting, not being the part. The word 'actors' is almost inappropriate, because they do all the shit about BEING the part, so it's not even about acting. And as we all know most actors have a 'canned' script when they shoot, but never follow it 100%. It only serves as the structure. They have to BE the part, not act or play it, or read the lines just as they are. Be FLEXIBLE. FLOW. This means improvising. The improvised material adds the MEAT to it and makes it more YOUR game than someone else's.
The art is in putting it all together. Like a painting, take your time to add your own touches. When you finish, step back, and look at what you've created and achieved. Anyway, gotta go. Keep playing.
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