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A simple way to communicate
The Bratty Little Sister Frame
For at least a year or two now, I've been trying to figure out a simple way to communicate how I act around women, and how some of the guys that I know who are killer pick up artists act.
Now I have it!
TREAT HER LIKE SHE'S YOUR BRATTY LITTLE SISTER!
Of course, there are a few minor modifications you'll need to make, but go with me here.
How does a big brother act around his bratty little sister? It's a combination of "I love you and would kill anyone who messed with you" and "I tolerate you, but I'm going to make fun of you and tease you to entertain myself.""
It's proven difficult for me to explain how you can bust a woman's balls in such a way that she still feels like you like her... lol. But maybe this is the frame that will open up the concept a little bit more.
The real trick when teasing a woman and busting her balls is to do it in a completely calm, confident, indifferent way. Women are great at detecting FRAUDS. And it really doesn't matter what kind of fraud you're trying to run... women just get uptight if you're not being who you are.
I've seen guys say things to women that I actually could not believe. I've watched my buddy Rick ask at least 50 women if they're bisexual now... and usually within about 3 minutes of meeting them. But he's so calm and natural, that they're usually fascinated and want to talk about it with him.
I've also watched other guys try to imitate him by asking women if they're bisexual and get shot down with cold, offended looks on their faces. What's the difference?
The other guys were frauds... they weren't comfortable around bisexual women, and they weren't comfortable asking. So the women picked up the discomfort, their fraud detectors went off, and they in effect said "You're weird, get away from me..."
Now, if you use the frame that the woman is your bratty little sister, then you'll feel comfortable talking about anything in front of her.
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