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Playing hot and cold, rewarding and punishing

Style: Nice, honest lay report. Made me think of two things:

1. Success is a matter of talent and timing. The fact that you approached a HB who had just been stood up is what made this all work. The lesson here for newbies is approach, approach, approach until you find the right person at the right time.

2. Now, the second thing your post raises is a good lesson in a woman's self-esteem. Of course, a girl who goes back to a hotel with a guy she's just met is not going to feel good about herself. When she started acting like a "bitch," as you say, and getting all freaked out, all she wanted was some reassurance that she had done the right thing, that you don't do this all the time, and that you were a nice guy. When you say "well the least you can do is give me a BJ before you leave," that's total Neanderthal/AFC behavior.

My guess is that you felt insecure afterwords, and were freaked out by her reaction. If you had understood how she was feeling and been sympathetic to her (in other words, eased her doubts and taken care of her), you probably could have continued to see her--and gotten your practice in! Instead, she left feeling tricked and feeling taken advantage of, and I'd guess that this sort of ruined the experience on some level for you too.

Next time, understand how she's feeling. And, if you're really feeling bad about your ability, work on a pattern telling someone how the first time, you're just so excited to be with her that you can't help yourself because she turns you on so much. But, this is a good thing, because you know that over time, the sex will get better and better, until you both know just how to pleasure each other for hours and hours, over and over, etc. Tell her how it's great to have gotten sex out of the way, and now you can drop the sexual tension and the games, and just be completely comfortable together as you get to know each other emotionally and physically.

Other than that, it sounds like you did a nice job. In the future, instead of coming on so strong and persistent, consider playing hot and cold, rewarding and punishing (something I only recently learned from Mystery to great effect), to make HER want you more. I hope this helps!

PS: The lay report by Depredator

Depredator: A couple of moths ago on a Saturday afternoon, I was really tired. It had been a long week and  I went to a cafe looking for a friend a needed to talk to.  He wasn't there so I got out To give him a call. I was calling when suddenly I saw a chick who was about to cross the street  dressed with some tight clothes with a nice butt. She looks at me and faces the street Again. But I notice she didn't cross the street when the light turned green so when I  finished my call I decided to approach her.

      Me: hi!  Are you waiting for someone?
      Hb: yes but he's late. Are you waiting for someone too?
      Me: no, not really, I come to this cafe often with my friends.
      Hb: I work in that business. (that is next to the cafe)
      Me: what shift do you work? Because I've seen you there. (not true he)
      Hb: some times in the morning and some times at the afternoon.
      Me: I've seen you in the afternoon when i come to this cafe. Are you taking vacations soon?
      Hb: in December i think.
      Me: where would you like to go?
      Hb: i love going to the beach so i might go there.
      Me: what do you like about the beach?
      Hb: that you can really relax on the beach during the day and go to clubs at night
      Me: I like going to the beach too because  thats where you can relax and forget about Problems that happen in your dally routine.

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