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JamesX: If one is interested in using social proof on exceptionally hot chicks that are Playboy / Penthouse Pet material (beauty of a 9 or 10), is it better than to be seen by them while accompanied with a chick who is also a 9 or 10?? or will the exceptionally hot chicks be just as impressed if they see you with an average looking chick ( 7 or 8) ??
Style: The more attractive the girl you're with, the more social proof you have. But, if you are after a 9/10 and you're with a 7/8, you can compensate. It's not just simply BEING with an HB that gets you the social proof. It's how she is behaving towards you. If you're both in a corner bored, it won't get you anywhere. But if you're with one or two 7/8s and they're hanging on your ever word, laughing all the time, having a lot of fun, and maybe even dirty-dancing with you, THAT is going to make a 9/10 want to meet you.
LoveDrop: I wouldn't characterize 7 or 8 as being "average looking"...I would describe a 7 or 8 as a good-looking female (ie a valid target to myself and other guys.) If you are truly referring to average (ie not attractive, or marginally attractive) then maybe you are talking about using some 5's or 6's for social proof? (Which I would *not* recommend.)
I was out Saturday night with three chicks...a 7, 8, and a 9...and I was basically treated like a celebrity (or a god) for the evening. Normally when I'm out with a hot chick, I will notice more women checking me out, etc. But this was unreal...people openly staring, women approaching our group and initiating conversations, men approaching me to shake my hand and ask us to come over and party with their group, etc. One guy even thought I was a pimp, and he approached me with his wallet open! These are reactions I got from everybody...my neighbors on my way out the door...people in line, club staff, people on the dance floor, people milling about, etc.
I think this social proof, and the amazing reactions I got, contributed heavily to my extremely powerful and confident state that evening, something worth anchoring for future use....
So...if being out with some hot chicks can give you amazing social proof and power, why bother bringing out a 5 or 6 in the first place? Why EVER do it? Also, I think it really could be negative...hot chicks see you with an UG and they place you in that box...."the guy who hangs with UGS." I say, if you want to play the social proof angle at all, do it properly.
One lady that approached our group was obviously trying to set up some group sex. It was so classic....first she approaches our group and gets in good with the girls. So they're referring to her as their "friend", etc. Then, about 20 minutes later, her man moves in. He's middle-aged, going bald, got a gut, all dressed in black. He's man-handling her a lot and getting in on the conversation. After 5 or 10 minutes of that, he takes off again and she starts filling in the girls on all his details...
Turns out they are up partying from Miami (I'm in New Orleans). He's "not her boyfriend"....why not? Because he's "not relationship material"...why not? Because he "is rude and treats her like shit." So why is she partying with him in New Orleans? Because he "has lots of pills" and he "has a huge dick...it's like a baseball bat...it makes me bleed...I was scared the first time I saw it but now I love it and I can't bring myself to give it up...someday I'll get a real boyfriend." Yeah right haa!! Contrast what she says she wants vs. what motivates her to fuck in the real world. He's not what she's programmed to think she should want (boyfriend material) but he IS what she actually responds to in the real world (treats her like shit and fucks her brains out.)
We didn't hook up with them (of course) but it's just funny how everyone suddenly wants a piece of the action and wants to shake my hand and sweet talk me, because I'm hanging with a couple chicks. Anyway, happy hunting.
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