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Juggler's 90-10 rule
Keep in mind Juggler's 90-10 rule. That is, you must be prepared to provide 90 percent of the conversation at the beginning of an interaction with a woman until she is warmed up. If you go in and give 50%, expecting she will give 50% - like most conversations in the non- PU world, you will be disappointed. She will give only 10%. That adds up to 60%. Not enough and the conversation will stall and collapse.
On approach PUA should follow the 90-10 rule. That is you must be prepared to supply 90% of the conversation because she will only give you 10%. She is experiencing a dramatic state change and needs time to warm up to the conversation.
Most guys fail to realize this and work from the frame that they should supply 50% like a normal conversation. Of course, the girl only gives 10%. That adds up to 60% which is not the 100% which you need. The conversation then crumbles and the guy goes away thinking that the girl does not like them or they didn't use the right opening or whatever.
So what you are doing is pretty good for the beginning of the interaction. As you said, you "blast through". You just need to give her more opportunity to respond but be ready to jump in when she can not.
What you can frequently do is ask very open ended questions which she has never heard before. You want her to give you a great answer but you are not expecting her to. You are prepared either way. If she does give a great answer you can use the feelings off of it. If she answers with,
"Um... I don't know." Then you can further clarify the question. This clarifying takes the form of you giving her an example from your life. ie the answer you would give to the question.
You: What did you want to be when you were ten years old?
Her: What? I don't remember.
You: Well that is too bad because it is useful to remember. If we can get in touch with our passions we had at that time we can learn alot about what gets us excited today. For instance, when I was ten I knew exactly what I wanted to be.
Her: What did you want to be?
You: I wanted to be an astronaut. I even had this great way of training. I had a globe in my room and I would spin it and then quickly climb up onto my bunk bed and lean over like this and pretend I was floating around the Earth. (Pause) When my sister would come in the door she would be the space alien. (Zap zap)
Now, once you warm her up she will begin to give more and more umph to the conversation. As her input grows you should give her the room to take more of the conversational workload.
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