seduction base Home           |            Before Pickup            |            Starting Pickup            |            In The Middle Of Pickup            |            The End Of Pickup
Advanced                 |              Field Reports              |                           F.A.Q                                |                    Others

Home > Starting PU > Wing >

How to help your wingmen for the good of all

Tyler Durden talks about how to help your wingmen for the good of all, and particularly when and when not to give advice.

Researchers have found that males' testosterone levels are effected even by trivial events such as their favourite sports team winning or losing a game. Our testosterone varies depending on the level of success that we have.

Mystery calls this MOMENTUM.

Our state DRASTICALLY affects our ability to pickup girls. They pickup on it.

When I'm in a good state, I can perform at elite levels. On some *rare* occassions I've seen my game run even as tight as Mystery's.

I'll feel great, practically invincible. Cocky as ever, I feel like I can pickup any chick in the club - and I CAN.

I CAN THINK OF ALL THE *RIGHT* THINGS TO SAY. ROUTINES AND LINES ARE FLOWING OUT OF MY MOUTH EFFORTLESSLY. I AM FUNNY, SHARP, COCKY, AND ITS ALL EFFORTLESS. I AM *ON*.

Other nights, I cannot initiate a chat to save my life. SERIOUSLY, I CANNOT INITIATE A CHAT. No exaggeration. I'll try, but I'll be snubbed over and over.

Literally, no exaggeration. I get sub-AFC. This happens to me at least one out of every 5-6 times that I'll go out.

------

So what causes this???

It has to do with how ALPHA you feel at the time, and the BIOFEEDBACK that you get as a result.

WHEN YOUR WING'S GAME BREAKS DOWN - PROCEDURES:

In the past, when my wingman's game had broken down, I'd stop and start running strategy and criticism on why it has occured. Try to get to the bottom of it, etc etc.

This has NEVER been helpful, and has always just made things WORSE. It never got good results.

What I've figured out now, is that GIVING ADVICE is OUT-ALPHAING your wingman.

By taking your advice, your wingman is BETA-ing himself.

Doing this in PICKUP is CATEGORICALLY DIFFERENT than in tasks such as academic work, because ALPHA STATE will DICTATE RESULTS.

In academic work, for example, you can take advice from someone, and it will improve your final draft.

However, during pickup, as you take advice, you feel beta-ed, and your results become WORSE and WORSE.

Again - taking advice during ANY other activity is EFFECTIVE, because the advice is HELPFUL.

Because the MERE ACT OF TAKING ADVICE makes you feel beta, it is UNHELPFUL. Therefore you must always AVOID giving advice to your wingman IN FIELD, and SAVE it for a post-game DEBRIEF.

It is my opinion that STRATEGY SHOULD NOT BE DISCUSSED WHILE IN THE MIDST OF PLAYING THE GAME, and should be saved for a post game debrief.

THE SOLUTION:

When your wingman's game breaks down, the KEY is to AVOID talking about pickup. Realize that the SMALL AMOUNT of strategy that you can discuss will NOT change your wingman's game enough in such a short period of time to effect substantial change in his game. The SOLUTION is to TAKE A BREATHER, and just go play pool or go outside for a bite to eat or something. JOKE AROUND.
Do NOT address that his night is going poorly. AVOID it.
If he asks why, just say "dude, you're MONEY.. those chicks were defective anti-social.. do you wanna go find some NORMAL SOCIABLE CHICKS?" and then let HIM direct you back in.

LET YOUR WINGMAN TAKE CHARGE of the situation, so that he can RETURN to alpha-state.

Do NOT start offering advice, or you will BETA his state.

Do NOT tell him about all the chicks you are picking up.

Just joke around, and put him into a situation that will BOOST his state / elevate his testosterone / *whatever*.

**Get him to TAKE CHARGE in a way that is SUBTLE, so he doesn't know that you are deliberately patronizing him.

If you can prod him to do something that makes him feel alpha, he will return to alpha-state, and again become a helpful and effective wingman.

This is important of course, for 2sets and just because in general, your wingman should be social-proofing you. An ideal pair of wingmen don't cockfarm eachother out. They BENEFIT and SOCIAL PROOF eachother, because they are BOTH cool guys.

Previous 1 [2] Next

See Also


Recent search queries to this page
pickup live page 1
sitehttpwwwseductionbasecom antisocial google page 1
without wingman google page 1
pair PUA wingman google page 1
wingman help google page 1
using wingman pua google page 1
effective wingman yahoo page 1
how to be an effective wingman google page 1
wingman advice google page 1
pick up chicks wingman google page 1
how to be a wingman live page 1
wingman seductionbase google page 1
advice for a wingman yahoo page 1
advice from a wingman yahoo page 1
wingman at social events google page 2
great wingman routines google page 1
WINGMAN PICKUP TASKS google page 1
characteristics of a good pickup wingman google page 1
wingman seduction strategy google page 1
giving a advice wingman google page 1
pua wingman routines google page 1
things to say to help out your wingman google page 1
pua wingman google page 2
pua task of a wingmen google page 1
wingman characteristics google page 1
how to sarge without a wingman google page 1
wingman strategy google page 1
pua wingman games google page 1
wingman taking one google page 2
anti wing man the game google page 1
wingman routines google page 1
pua task google page 1
how to be a wingman to pick up chicks google page 1
i can be your wingman google page 1
wingman tactic seduction google page 2
social wingman advice google page 1
wingman seduction google page 1
wingman beta google page 1
Wingman ill help you with the key google page 1
wingmen strategy google page 1
pickup without wingman google page 1
sarge wingman google page 1
definition Social Wingman page 1
Wingman Pair google page 1
wingman games strategies pua google page 1
afc wingman google page 2
can be your wingman any time google page 1
Tyler Durden talks about how to help your wingmen for the good of all and particularly when and when not to give advice google page 1
what wingmen should say google page 1
wing man strategies google page 1
can u run game without a wingman google page 1
wingman seduction pdf google page 1
wingmen in games page 1
wingman rules seductionbase google page 1
the anti wingman google page 1
wingmans tasks google page 1
MERE ACT OF TAKING ADVICE makes you feel beta google page 1
wingman pua google page 1
tyler how to be a wingman google page 1
should i sharge without a wingman google page 1
afc to wingman google page 1
PAIR PUA google page 1
wingman strategies pua google page 1
good wingman strategies page 1
wingman games google page 1
wingman strategies google page 1
im your wingman google page 2
things to say as a wingman google page 1
pair wingman page 1
rules wingman game google page 1
pua wingman training google page 1
how to become a good wingman yahoo page 3
wing men game google page 1
things a wingman has todo google page 1
3 man pickup strategy wingman google page 1
wingman pick up google page 3
wingman sarge google page 1
wingman game pua google page 1
tyler durden pua wingman page 1
wingman the game PUA google page 1
things to tell your wingman google page 1
testostorone levels effect sarging google page 1
wingman tries to out alpha me google page 1
game seduction strategies google page 1
how to sarge with a wingman google page 1
wingman training google page 2
wingman things to say google page 1
Games with wingmen google page 1
help with wingman google page 1
how to help wingman page 1
games to play with your wingman google page 1
funny things to say as a wingman page 1
what should wingmen say google page 1
wingman games PUA google page 1
how to wingman google page 1
pua forum wingman strategies google page 1
pickup how to be a good wingman google page 1
ho to be a good wingman google page 1
wingman pick up opener google page 1
What should a wingman say google page 1
things a wingman should say page 1
wingman opener page 1
what types of things should wingmen say google page 1
wing man sarge google page 1
how to be an wingman google page 1
why to have rules with your wingman google page 1


www.seductionbase.com @2009 - The Ultimate Collection Of seduction Opener, Close Routines and Other seduction Tactics