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I never knew how POWERFUL a Neg can be until last night
The target I'm speaking about is the British HB 8.
Last night at 3am, I'm at my grocery store, when she walks in with a DATE.
Nervously, she says 'Oh, this is that guy from school I was telling you about.'
It's amazing how the FRAME was set up, that she was on a date, with someone ELSE, and not with me. This guy was tall, good looking, Alpha-Male looking.
I get her to start talking, and she said something, I don't quite remember it, but I didn't like it.
"Is she always like this? How do you roll with her?"
He starts laughing, she hits me, stars PHYSICALLY leaning towards me. I pick up an "Aero Bar". She starts telling me why I shouldn't buy it, because Nestle is evil, and if I want to kill "African Babies" then eat it.
"Oh yeah? Then I guess I'll buy it. No, but seriously, what's wrong with it."
Here's where the date tries to enter the conversation again. I felt this physical AURA around HB 8 and me that he tried to penetrate, to no avail.
He says something like "Yeah it's like... uh... oh." And trails off as none of us even acknowledge him.
I finally throw her a bone. "Okay, so why is it wrong?"
So she starts getting into her story about why they're evil because Nestle goes down to Africa and tries to convince Mothers that it's better to use THEIR milk other than breast milk for their babies, all the while knowing that they're going to drink dirty water to make the milk, which will in turn end up making their babies sick, and eventually die.
(I just thought of doing a DHV story where I actually have worked for UNICEF, Doctors Without Borders and Amnesty, but I'll save it for next time we speaK.)
So, I'm like. "oh yeah? And I turn away to pay for the chocolate bar."
She REACHES for the BAR, grabs it, but I hold on... this girl is PHYSICALLY going after me. I shrug her off.
I turn to her, and she's still STANDING INSIDE THE STORE with her jaw open, while her date is ALREADY OUTSIDE.
I look at her. "Bye!" I said, giving her a little wave. (I'm concerned it delivered it a bit arrogantly)
Then I throw her a bone. "We'll be in touch."
"Not if you buy that chocolate bar, we won't!" She says as she's leaving.
"Ok, bye!" I said.
I'm fairly sure I DHV'd here by not falling for her shit test. Plus by disarming and totally outing her date, not showing neediness or typical 'nice guy' bullshit. And DEFINETLY that I wasn't chasing her.
My only concern, again, is that I might have come off a BIT arrogantly, and maybe making her think 'oh, he's being an asshole because he thinks I don't like him." Which is totally not the case... I'm just concerned that in my attempt to AVOID being that way, I may have come off in that way.
I think the key to being alpha, as opposed to arrogant, is your subcommunication. When you keep smiling and laughing while you interact with her you will come across as confident and amused. If you start sounding sarcastic or let your body give off that "you should have been aborted" vibe you'll seem arrogant.
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